TOOLS FOR HANDLING MOST ANY SITUATION
This class will alter your thinking about how best to relate to another person and to get your needs met
It takes a truly different mindset than either the defensive or aggressive manner in which most people are trained to communicate – which is usually by sharing only that information and attitude that protects themselves or which is intended to influence or overwhelm another person. The different mindset that leads to extraordinarily effective human relating can be summed up as “seek first to understand and then be understood.” This class teaches the basic skills of recognizing and communicating around another person’s needs and feelings and teaches how to identify and express your own feelings and needs. The results are life-changing.
Man and woman are struggling to co-exist harmoniously within a context of an unhealthy matrix that causes each to suffer primary wounds and generate self-protective stances in order to 'survive' and protect their traumatized selves. Jay Levin’s class breaks down the effects of the unhealthy matrix on the psyche of both man and woman and in doing so gifts us with the tools, understanding and compassion to help ourselves and each other recover our authentic selves and step out of the matrix.
The relationship course changed my life in a really significant way. There’s been really major breakthroughs in my relationship and in how I see myself. Your concepts are profoundly affecting the way I see the world and deal in it.
Jay's class illuminated men as something more than the other from another planet but as vulnerable humans burdened by pressures, demands and expectations that engendered specific behaviors. As a result, compassion replaced fear and defensiveness, understanding replaced suspicion and game-playing was replaced with real communication, the result being a positive impact on my relationship with all the men in my life.
Jay's course provided me with a "toolbox" filled with techniques, perspectives and practices that can help anyone willing to better their relationship to themselves and others. I became more aware of who I am, recognizing my patterns and my wounds as well as my gifts and passions. His relationship classes brought light and understanding to my own relationship and to the old paradigm in which most of us are operating. It offered insight and great tools to help take my partnership to a new level of understanding, communicating and loving.